Becoming Wise Children

Rev. Jared Buss

Pittsburgh New Church; June 15, 2025

Readings: Revelation 19:4-9 (children’s talk); John 21:1-8; Heaven and Hell §§277, 278 (portions)

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In this portion of the service we’re going to focus on one of the implications of the idea that the Lord is our Father: if He is our Father, then we are His children. And when I say “children” I don’t mean adult sons and daughters: the Word invites us to think of ourselves as little children who need their Father. This idea can be comforting, and it can also be challenging.

            In the Word the Lord addresses His disciples as children. This is something we see, for example, at the end of the gospel of John. We read: [21:1-8].[1]

            The Lord says to the disciples, “Children, have you any food” (v. 5). And the word that He uses to address them in the original Greek definitely doesn’t mean an adult son or daughter—it means a little child. It’s the same word that He uses when He says, “Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them, for of such is the kingdom of God” (Mark 10:14)—and He then proceeds to lift those little children that He’s referring to into His arms (v. 16). So He addresses His disciples using a word for a child that’s small enough to be lifted into one’s arms.

            The story illustrates the challenge we might run into if we try to think of ourselves as children of the Lord. It says that the disciples didn’t recognize the Lord (v. 4). They just saw a man standing on the shore, and that man called them children. They could have chosen to be offended. The Lord looked like just another adult, same as themselves. He didn’t even look like He was much older than they were—His body was little more than thirty years old (cf. Luke 3:23). We don’t know exactly how old the disciples were, but they were all adults.

            We here are also adults. We’ve grown up—and growing up feels like a lot of work sometimes. There are, inevitably, some hard lessons. At a certain point our parents will no longer wash the clothes we leave on the floor. At a certain point we become the ones who have to pay for all of our own stuff. If we become parents ourselves, then we have to learn how to be the mom or the dad—we have to be the one who doesn’t fall apart, instead of being the kid who can fall apart because mom and dad will be there to hold the pieces. Growing up usually involves taking on way more responsibility than you ever imagined you would have to, when you were little, and that’s hard. And once we’ve done that work, we don’t want to have it invalidated by people who treat us like we haven’t done it. We don’t want to be treated like children. The disciples could have looked at the Lord standing there on the shore and said, “I’m not your child. I’m an adult.” And sometimes we might be inclined to say the same thing. We might be inclined to say, “Yes, You’re my God—but that doesn’t mean that I’m your little child.”

            Of course, the disciples didn’t say that to the Lord. At first they simply answered His question—no, they didn’t have any food (John 21:5). Maybe they were thinking about being offended. Or maybe they felt that there was more than met the eye within this man standing on the shore. Then, when they did recognize Him, they went to Him immediately. Peter actually dove into the water to go to the Lord, as though he couldn’t wait for the boat to get underway. He wasn’t ashamed to rush to the Lord—and there’s something childlike about that.

            In the Word the Lord makes it pretty clear that He is our Father (e.g. Matt. 23:9). And He makes it pretty clear that it would be good for us to take on, or lean into, the idea that we are His little children. For example He says, “Unless you are turned around and become as little children, you shall not enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matt. 18:3). That particular statement isn’t even what you would call a suggestion—the Lord makes it clear that there’s something about this idea that we are His children that we need to accept, for the sake of our own happiness. In the Heavenly Doctrine of the New Church, in the book Heaven and Hell, there’s a chapter on the innocence of the angels—and in that chapter we’re told that the highest angels, more than all others, “love to be led by the Lord as little children by their father” (§280). Those highest angels are the wisest of all the angels—surely their example is a good one to follow. What if we loved to be led by the Lord, as little children by their father?

            But the Word also makes it clear that we’re not meant to go backwards. We aren’t meant to unlearn all of the lessons we’ve learned that have made us into adults. The children that we’re meant to become aren’t the same as the children that we used to be. The Lord suggests this when He says that we need to be “born again” (John 3:3-8). We need to become “newborns” a second time—only the first birth was natural and the second is spiritual. These ideas are discussed in more detail in that chapter on the innocence of angels from Heaven and Hell. And now we’re going to turn to some passages from that chapter. We read: [§§277, 278].

            Innocence is the heart of this whole body of doctrine. In the Word a little child symbolizes someone who is innocent—so when the Lord says that we need to become as little children, the message is that we need to learn innocence. But those passages also said quite clearly that the innocence of little children isn’t the destination: it was only a preview of the destination. The Lord is calling us to grow into a new kind of innocence, innocence that is joined to wisdom. We were children, now we’re adults; and we’re called to become wise children—something like and yet unlike what we were.

            So what does this mean, in practice? First of all let’s get the obvious stuff out of the way: the Lord doesn’t want us to behave altogether like we did when we were children. Children are sometimes very sweet. They also throw appalling tantrums, and can be oblivious to the needs of anyone but themselves. To one degree or another we’ve all grown out of those qualities—and that’s good. Don’t go back.

            So which of the qualities that we see in little children does the Lord want us to echo? The Heavenly Doctrine has quite a bit to say about this, and I encourage you to read the whole chapter on innocence from Heaven and Hell, but for now, for time’s sake, I’m going to suggest two qualities for us to focus on. The first quality is a willingness to accept help. Little children feel no shame at all in asking their parents for help. As we grow up we learn that there are things we can’t ask of other people—there are things that we’re responsible for. We often learn that lesson too well. We forget that we aren’t required to “do life” all by ourselves. The Lord in His Word makes it clear that we need Him. He says, “Without Me you can do nothing” (John 15:5). That’s not exactly a vague statement. We need Him—we depend on Him, like children depend on their parents to tie their shoes and keep them from getting lost on the way to the park. There’s nothing wrong with this—that we need Him isn’t because of some failure or inadequacy on our part. It’s just that we need our Father. Wisdom sees this, and innocence takes it to heart.

            The second quality that we see in children that I’d like to call attention to is their willingness to accept that their parents are in charge. Of course little children embody this quality quite imperfectly. Sometimes they decide to do anything but what their parents say. “You want me to wear clothes? I will not!” But when they aren’t being contrarians, little children can be content with the fact that they don’t make the rules. Of course mom and dad are in charge—they’re mom and dad. When we’re little children it’s inescapably obvious that our parents can do things we can’t: they’re bigger and stronger than we are. It’s inescapably obvious that they know more than we do. So little children tend to trust the answers that their parents give them. A lot of the time they’re content to follow where their parents lead. The truth is that the gap between what we knew when we were little and what our parents knew—or the gap between what we could do when we were little and what our parents could do—is tiny compared to the gap between our present capabilities and the Lord’s. He is bigger than we are. Of course He’s in charge. Wisdom sees this, and innocence takes it to heart.

            We don’t have to accept that He’s our Father. We are free to reject this. If we do accept it, then we’re going to go on a journey as we learn what it means. The reward, or the hope, at the end of this journey is that if the Lord is our Heavenly Father, then He can make all the world okay, the way that all the world was okay when we were little children in our parents’ arms.

Amen.

[1] See also Mark 10:24 and John 13:33

The Light in the Word

Rev. Jared Buss

Pittsburgh New Church; June 1, 2025

Readings: Revelation 4 (children’s talk); Apocalypse Revealed §231

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Today’s sermon is about the idea that the teachings of the Word are like clear stones, or translucent stones. Most clear stones are considered precious or semi-precious—in other words, they’re generally held to be valuable. The teachings of the Word are valuable too, but that isn’t the main reason why they’re like precious stones. They’re like precious stones because of their translucence, or their ability to let light shine through them. There is a light within the teachings of the Word, and we don’t really understand the Word until we see that light. So today’s sermon is about two things: first, the idea that that light exists, and that we can find it in the text of the Word. Second, today’s sermon is about how we come to see that light.

The reading from Revelation spoke of One sitting on a throne who was like two different precious stones in appearance: jasper and sardius (4:3). Clearly this is a description of the Lord (cf. AR §230; AE §267). The Lord is said to resemble precious stone because precious stones symbolize the teachings of the Word, and the teachings of the Word are from the Lord and have the Lord in them (cf. John 1:1). Our next reading is from the Heavenly Doctrine of the New Church, from the book Apocalypse Revealed, and it explains the symbolism or the spiritual meaning of those jasper and sardius stones [read §231].

We already talked about the whiteness of jasper and the redness of sardius, and how those colors symbolizes spiritual light, which is wisdom, and heavenly fire, which is love. The Word is filled with love and wisdom from the Lord. He is the love and the wisdom that fill His Word. All of these ideas are held within that image of the One sitting on the throne.

By the way, if you have an interest in stones or minerology you might be thinking, “hang on, jasper is a red stone.” But that passage made it pretty clear that we’re supposed to visualize jasper as a white stone. The short explanation for that is that the names we use for minerals and the ways we differentiate one mineral from another have changed a lot over the millennia. In modern English “jasper” refers to a stone that is predominantly red, but the Latin word jaspis (and the Greek ἰασπις, iaspis), which is etymologically related to the English word jasper, apparently refers to a white stone. It’s confusing, but that’s language for you. In any case, the reading from Apocalypse Revealed makes it clear that we’re supposed to be visualizing a white stone and a red stone.

But the stones aren’t just red and white: they’re translucent. They’re precious stones. The reading said that stones [present river stone] represent truths. Specifically, they represent the “outmost expressions” of truth. They represent hard, cold facts—truth that’s “set in stone.” But precious stones, according to the read, [present quartz] symbolize “truth that is made translucent by the presence of good” (AR §231). When truth is joined to good it becomes clear—it obtains the ability to transmit light (cf. SH §9863; SS §44; AE §268; AR §915). Clear or precious stones also represent truths in the literal sense of the Word. The reading said that precious stones in heaven, “draw their origin from the outmost expressions of the Word, and they owe their translucence to the spiritual meaning of those outmost expressions” (AR §231). In other words, precious stones in heaven are pictures of the truths that are written in the Word—and precious stones on earth are likewise pictures of the character and the quality of the teachings that are written in the Word. Precious stones are translucent, and the teachings of the Word are translucent also, because there is a spiritual meaning within them—a spiritual light that is able to shine through them.

We’ll say more about that light in a moment. Today’s sermon is really about how we come to see that light. But for now I want to make the simple point that there are two different kinds of stones: stones that can transmit light, and stones that can’t. Likewise there are ideas, or truths, that are able to hold spiritual light, and ideas that are unable. And here’s a visualization: [shine light into both stones]. The thing about this stone [quartz] is that it always has the ability to transmit light. Whether there’s light shining into it or not, this stone is translucent. But there isn’t always light shining into it.

It’s important to understand that all of the truths in the letter of the Word—the things that are written in this book—are precious stones. Everything written in this book has a spiritual meaning. It holds light within it. We may or may not see that light. We may see it in some teachings or not in others. But all of these teachings are able to transmit spiritual light. They retain that capacity, no matter what we do with them or how poorly we understand them. Later in the book of Revelation there’s a description of a great red dragon with seven heads, and the dragon is said to have seven jewels on its heads (12:3). The dragon symbolizes a total falsification of basic truths about God and salvation, and the jewels symbolize the teachings of the Word (AR §540; cf. SS §44.4). The truths of the Word are still jewels, still precious, even when they appear on the heads of the dragon. They have the capacity to transmit spiritual light, no matter who holds them. But when we misunderstand them—and especially when we abuse them—we don’t see the light within them.

Earlier it was mentioned that good, or love, is what makes truth translucent. But then we started talking about how the truths of the letter of the Word are translucent truths. Both ideas are true. All of the teachings that appear in this book are joined to good. They hold heavenly goodness within them. That goodness is what clarifies them and gives them the capacity to transmit spiritual light. And that’s true whether or not we see how these teachings are joined to good. The teachings of the Word are precious stones, no matter who holds them or how we hold them.

But at this point we should say out loud what many of you have probably already been thinking—that there are a lot of the things in the letter of the Word that sure seem pretty opaque. There are statements that feel harsh, statements that don’t seem fair, and a lot of statements that are simply hard to understand. For these reasons, and maybe other reasons too, people sometimes struggle with the assertions that the Word is from the Lord, that it’s Holy, and that the teachings of the Word hold the Lord’s love within them. There are a lot of reasons why the letter of the Word is the way it is—too many to get into today. What I want to put before you right now is the idea that it’s okay for us to look at a teaching from the Word, or a specific statement from the Word [present quartz] and say, “I don’t see the light within this.” But if we believe that the Word is the Word of God, then we mustn’t take it upon ourselves to decide that some of its teachings are precious stones, and some are not [present river stone]. They are all precious stones. If we hold on to that idea, we’re holding open the possibility that we might see the light within the difficult teachings someday. That light will reorder the difficult ideas from within and make them seem good—even though the external form of the idea will not change.

So how do we come to see that light? First of all, what is that light? The simple answer is that it’s the Lord’s light. It’s the light that fills the spiritual world and reveals everything there for what it really is. In other words, it’s the light of truth. In that light there are no lies, no illusions. There’s no decision paralysis. We simply see what the Lord wants us to do. And it’s so important to understand that His light is inseparable from His love. That’s why He’s like a jasper and a sardius stone (Rev. 4:3) Light and love radiate from Him together. In His light we see what it means to love.

And how do we come to see this light? Well, the unsurprising and maybe unsatisfactory answer is that the Lord gives it to us. In the reading from Revelation John says that he saw a throne, and One sitting on the throne who was like a jasper and a sardius (4:3). And then we’re told that lightnings, thunderings and voices proceeded from the throne (v. 5). These things symbolize insights given to us by God. In Apocalypse Revealed we read:

“And from the throne proceeded lightnings, thunderings, and voices.” This symbolizes enlightenment, perception, and instruction from the Lord.

Because of the flash of light that strikes the eyes, lightnings symbolize enlightenment, and because of the crash that strikes the ears, thunderings symbolize perception. And since these two together symbolize enlightenment and perception, voices then symbolize instruction.

…. all enlightenment, perception and instruction comes from the Lord by means of the Word. (§236)

It’s possible for us to see the truth within the Word—to see it as though in a flash of lightning. But that illumination is the Lord’s to give. We can’t find it on our own, no matter how smart we are. We certainly can’t find it by trying really hard to make the Word say what we think it should say. Illumination is the Lord’s to give, and He gives it to people who are trying to use His Word the way He means for it to be used.

            In the book Doctrine of the Sacred Scripture we read:

Genuine truth… is apparent in the Word’s literal sense only to people who are enlightened by the Lord. Enlightenment comes from the Lord alone, and it is found in people who love truths because they are true and apply them to the uses of life. (§57)

The light within the Word is revealed to people who love the truth because it’s true. In other words, that light is revealed to people who want to see the world that the Lord has made as it really is. People who are willing to be shown new things, because what matters to them isn’t that the ideas they already have are proven to be correct—what matters to them is the pursuit of truth. But pursuing truth isn’t enough on its own: enlightenment is given to people who apply truths to the uses of life. The Lord gave us the Word to show us the way to heaven. He gave it to show us how to refuse evil and choose what is good (cf. Is. 7:15). We can’t understand it if we don’t use it the way it’s meant to be used. When we listen to the Word we’re meant to ask ourselves, “What is the Lord saying to me—right here, in this teaching—about what it means to live a heavenly life?”

            It’s easy to see how some teachings show us the way to heaven. The Lord says:

You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind… [And] you shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.

We know how we’re meant to use those teachings. Other teachings are harder to “apply to the uses of life.” It’s okay for us to admit that we don’t see the light of heaven within certain teachings. But we need to hold on to the idea that they are all precious stones. They are all the Word of God. If we get into the habit of accepting some teachings from the Word and dismissing others, we’re making ourselves the teachers when we’re meant to be the students. Only the Lord can illuminate our minds.

            And illumination, or enlightenment, isn’t an on or off sort of thing. Our ability to see the light within the Word will grow gradually but also continually, as long as we continue to allow the Lord to teach us. We’ll have a flash of insight, and we’ll be amazed because we see a truth in the Word that we’ve never seen before—we see more clearly than we’ve ever seen. And later on we’ll see more clearly still, more clearly than we thought was possible [visualization—increase brightness].

            The Lord has so much to show us—and He wants to teach us. He will illuminate us, as long as we’re willing to let Him open our eyes, instead of deciding for ourselves what the truth should be. He says, “I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life” (John 8:12).

Amen.

Help My Unbelief

Rev. Jared Buss

Pittsburgh New Church

Readings: 1 Kings 19:9-18 (children’s talk); Mark 9:14-27; Secrets of Heaven §8567

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            In this part of today’s service we’re going to focus on the spirit or the attitude that Elijah voices before the Lord on Mount Horeb. Twice he says:

I have been very zealous for the Lord God of hosts; for the children of Israel have forsaken Your covenant, torn down Your altars, and killed Your prophets with the sword. I alone am left; and they seek to take my life. (1 Kings 19:10, 14)

Clearly he feels hopeless. He tried, and it didn’t work. Now he is alone. He also seems kind of angry, doesn’t he? He doesn’t quite come out and accuse the Lord of misleading him, but his words leave that possibility open. “I have been very zealous for the Lord God of hosts”—I did everything You told me to, Lord, and look where it got me!

            This isn’t the only story in the Word in which someone expresses their despair and their frustration to the Lord. Far from it—there are a lot of stories like that. Our next reading is one of them. This story is from chapter nine of the gospel of Mark. The way that feelings are expressed to the Lord in this story isn’t exactly the same as the way that Elijah expresses his emotions. But there is some overlap, and that’s what we’re going to focus on. We read: [vv. 14-27].

            The father in that story cries out to the Lord, saying, “Lord I believe; help my unbelief!” The spirit in these words is not the same as the spirit that Elijah voices, but it’s similar. There is a kind of anger in Elijah’s words that isn’t present in this poor father’s words. Elijah sounds bitter, whereas this man mostly just sounds like he’s grieving. But maybe there is some frustration mixed in with his grief? He cries out “Lord I believe” as if to say, “You’re telling me I can have what I want if I believe, and I do believe—just help me!”

            The obvious thing that both of these men share is a feeling of hopelessness, or despair. Elijah says, “I alone am left.” I am the only person who is still following you, Lord. I am alone. And that father cries out, “help my unbelief!” He says: There’s a part of me that believes that You can help me—that I can get my son back—and a part of me that fears that nobody can give me what I want. Both men know despair, and both men take their despair to the Lord. They throw it at His feet, even.

            There are many more stories in the Word in which we see the same thing. For example, when the Lord’s disciples were caught in a storm in the midst of the sea of Galilee and they found the Lord sleeping in the back of the boat they said to Him, “Teacher, do You not care that we are perishing?” (Mark 4:38). There’s plenty of anger and despair to be heard in those words. There are other examples that we could consider, but we’ll stick with what we have.

            The Word shows us people talking to the Lord this way over and over, and there’s got to be a reason for that. There’s got to be a message. Surely at least part of the message is that it’s okay to talk to the Lord this way. Of course He doesn’t want us to be angry with Him—but He does want to be close to us. He wants to be conjoined with us. To use a more contemporary term, He wants to have a relationship with each of us. Think about the people you have close relationships with—your spouse or your children or your best friends. You don’t want them to be angry with you, but if they are angry, you want them to talk to you about it. You don’t want them to just resent you in silence.

            People often treat strong emotions like they’re somehow unsanitary: they happen, but we don’t talk about them. At least not in polite company. Perhaps this is especially true of western culture. Just think of the standard responses to being asked how you’re doing: “Oh, I’m well, thank you.” Or, “I’m fine.” What’s conspicuous about the word “fine” is that it’s almost completely devoid of emotional significance. Sometimes we take that reflex, or that cultural pattern, and apply it to our relationships with the Lord. We sanitize the prayers we say to Him. We approach Him solemnly and reverently, which is good—but sometimes the solemnity and the reverence come at the expense of being honest.

            In the teachings of the New Church we’re told that, “prayer is talking to God and at the same time some inner view of the things that are being prayed for” (SH §2535). Scripted prayers, like the Lord’s Prayer, are important and powerful. But prayers don’t have to be that way. We’re praying whenever we talk to God—so long as our hearts and minds are present with the words that we say. The point is, talk to Him! Talk to Him like you would talk to someone you have a relationship with. Be real with Him. Even if the truth is that you’re feeling some emotions that frighten you. What kind of relationship with God do we have if we’re only allowed to engage with Him when we’ve got it all pulled together? He wants to be there for us when things are hard—that doesn’t work if He requires us to sort our feelings out before we pray to Him.

Obviously this doesn’t mean that we should just say anything to Him. The same is true of our relationships with other people: we should be honest with those we love, but there are still some things we shouldn’t say. We’re not going to hurt the Lord’s feelings, but if we’re mean-spirited or scornful when we talk to Him we will hurt our own ability to receive His help. He’s still our God, and we can’t have a relationship with Him if we don’t acknowledge who He is. If He’s God—and we’re not—some humility is in order.

But it’s okay if our prayers are full of grief or despair or even anger. The Lord has heard those kinds of prayers before. He’s there to hear them. He wants to be the one who helps us get our emotions under control, so that we don’t take them out on the people around us. That means that it’s okay if we go to Him when our emotions aren’t under control. Again, we’re not going to hurt Him. What we see in the Word is that He’s strong enough to give us an answer of peace no matter what we throw at His feet.

That’s a general takeaway from these stories we’ve been looking at. But there’s something more specific that I’d like us to consider—an idea that’s encapsulated in the words, “Help my unbelief.” The father in that story from Mark believed in the Lord, yet he didn’t believe. There was a part of him that didn’t think that Jesus Christ could help him, and maybe that part of him didn’t think that anyone could ever help him—that anyone could ever save his son from the awful spirit that was afflicting him. There was a part of that father that despaired. But he took his despair to the Lord. He said, “Help my unbelief.” This is something that the Lord wants us to do.

The teachings of the New Church have a lot to say about despair. The basic message is that periods of despair are part of the process of spiritual growth. More specifically, we’re told that despair is part of temptation. One passage says, “Every temptation entails some kind of despair, or else it is not temptation…. A person who is being tempted is subjected to anxious fears which produce a state of despair over the end in view” (SH §1787). We’re also told that no one can be regenerated, or reborn, without temptation (SH §8403.2, cf. §§3696, 5036, 7090.3). This is a hard teaching, but it’s something the Heavenly Doctrine says very clearly. Temptations are the spiritual conflicts, or crucibles, in which we’re pushed to actually let go of the old and take hold of the new. And despair is part of that process. Here’s a passage from the Heavenly Doctrine that speaks about this: this passage is printed on the back of your worship handout [read SH §8567].

“Temptations consist in ever-recurring feelings of despair over salvation.” At first these feelings are slight—at first they’re just nagging doubts—but they come to weigh on us more and more heavily. Isn’t it interesting that when people are in the process of being saved they doubt that they’re worthy of salvation? And maybe when we’re confident that we’re entitled to salvation we aren’t as close to heaven as we think we are. Over the course of the temptation those doubts gather and multiply—those fears that maybe we won’t be able to pull it together, that maybe we can’t be who we wanted to be. With those fears comes a feeling that the Lord is far away. We might even get angry with Him. We might say, “Do You not care? I have been very zealous for You. I believe in You—help me!”

The underlaying truth here is that we need the Lord. He is the way, the truth and the life (John 14:6). Without Him we have no life and no power. But we have to do a lot of living before we really believe that. A lot of the time we tell ourselves we believe, but we also cling to our pride. We cling to ourselves. And we aren’t strong enough to save ourselves. So we despair. It’s important to note that the Lord doesn’t make this happen—He doesn’t inflict despair on us. We do that to ourselves. He just knows that this is part of the process.

The passage we heard said that in the extremes of despair a person’s “natural life is snuffed out, since while a person is in the midst of despair the Lord keeps his inmost actively engaged in the fight against falsity” (SH §8567). What this means is that those moments of despair are the moments in which something natural, or earthly, dies within us, and something spiritual is born in its place. In those moments of despair we let go of a lot of things, but the Lord keeps the inmost part of us engaged in the fight against falsity. In other words He helps us hold on to a truth—a truth that stays alive while the illusions we once clung to die away. And what is this truth? It probably takes a lot of different forms, based on who we are and what our journey has been. But essentially it’s the truth that He is our God and our salvation.

What all of this means is that doubting Him or even despairing of receiving His help is not a sin—it’s part of the process. He knows that we’ll be brought low sometimes, and what we need to do in those moments is turn to Him. And if we cry out “help my unbelief!” that’s exactly what we’re doing. We’re turning to Him. We don’t need to make ourselves pretty before we turn to Him. We don’t need to have any of the answers. We don’t’ need to fix ourselves first. It’s enough if we go to Him as we are, saying, “Lord I believe; help my unbelief.”

So the broad message of this sermon is that it’s okay to take our emotions to the Lord, even if they’re messy. The specific message is that despair is, though it feels especially messy, is something we’re especially meant to take to the Lord.

He’s waiting for an opportunity to answer us. The reading said that all spiritual temptation is followed by comfort and newness of life (SH §8567). This is something we see in all of the stories from the Word that we’ve looked at today. The disciples in the midst of the storm said, “Lord, do you not care that we are perishing?’ and then He rose and hushed the storm (Mark 4:38, 39). Elijah said that He was alone, but the Lord said that there were seven thousand in Israel who were on his side—seven thousand people who were under God’s protection because they would not worship an idol (1 Kings 19:18). And the father who brought His wretched son to the Lord cried out with tears because He longed to have his son restored to Him. Then the Lord restored His son to him. He “took him by the hand and lifted him up, and he arose” (Mark 10:27).

Amen.

Wonderful Truths

Rev. Jared Buss

Pittsburgh New Church; April 13, 2025

Readings: John 12:12-19 (children’s talk); Leviticus 23:39-40; Apocalypse Explained §458.4-5

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           Those people on the first Palm Sunday were so excited about the Lord—and wouldn’t it be great if we could be that excited? When was the last time that any of us were prepared to shout and cheer for the Lord?  Wouldn’t it be nice if we could be so confident in Him?

            Of course, those people in the reading who shouted and cheered and were so confident didn’t necessarily have the clearest ideas about who the Lord was or what He was going to do. They called Him the King of Israel (John 12:13), and presumably many of them meant that title very literally. But the Lord never became an earthly king. Being excited about something that turns out not to be real kind of knocks the wind out of the excitement.

            The thing is, the Lord has given us the teachings we need to understand who He really is—and who He really is is far more wonderful than being the literal king of Israel. So we can learn something from that crowd that celebrated the Lord on the first Palm Sunday. Their ideas were off track, but their actions were dead on. They held up palm branches and they declared truths about the Lord—and the things they said were true, even if they didn’t understand them. We can do the same. Literally holding up palms and literally shouting is less important than capturing the spirit that we see in this story—a spirit that declares wonderful truths about the Lord.

            Something that can help us understand that spirit better is the symbolism of palm branches. Palm branches are only mentioned in the gospel of John (12:13)—Matthew and Mark both say that people laid down branches to make a pathway for the Lord, but don’t specify that they were palm branches (Matt. 21:8; Mark 11:8). But nobody ever pictures people using any other kind of branches than palm branches on Palm Sunday—after all, it’s called “Palm Sunday.” And the teachings of the New Church confirm that the symbolism of palms is important to this story.

We might be tempted to think that people chose to lay down palm branches for practical reasons: palms branches are fairly flat, so if you put them in someone’s path they’ll make a carpet rather than a barrier. That might have been part of the reasoning, but there’s more to it than that: it’s clear that, even at the time, palm branches were understood to be symbolic of something. A piece of evidence in support of this is that the ancient Israelites were instructed to use palm branches during some of their religious celebrations. Here are some of the instructions, given in the book of Leviticus, that pertain to a holiday called the feast of tabernacles: [read 23:39, 40].

So the people were told to “rejoice before the Lord” holding fruits of the tree of honor, and three different kinds of branches: palm branches; leafy branches, or branches with thick foliage; and willow branches (v. 40). It’s pretty clear that these instructions would never have been given unless these specific fruits and branches represented something. Our next reading is a passage from the Heavenly Doctrine of the New Church, from the book Apocalypse Explained, about the symbolism of these trees. The first part of this reading reviews all of the trees mentioned in that passage from Leviticus; the second part focuses on the specific meaning of palm branches. We read: [§458.4-5].

There are two ideas that we’re going to draw out of that reading and focus on. The first is that palm-trees symbolize “spiritual good—that is, the good of truth;” the second is that people used to hold palms in their hands “to testify to their joy of heart.” These two ideas are, of course, connected, and the connection between them captures the spirit that we see in the Palm Sunday story. There’s something in there about truth, and there’s something in there about joy and testimony: the spirit that we’re talking about today is a spirit that puts those things together.

Palms are said to symbolize spiritual good, which is the same thing as the good of truth. The good of truth means good that comes from truth. It’s the good that comes from living the truth—the good that comes of doing what you know to be right (see the beginning of AE §458). A good idea in your head is just an idea. We may call our ideas “good,” but ideas all by themselves don’t accomplish anything good. It’s only when we do something with them that they can have a positive effect on the world—so that’s the point at which an idea actually becomes good. The good of truth is simply truth that we bring to life. So palm branches fundamentally represent truths, or true ideas—but they represent truths that we love enough that we’re willing to do something with them (cf. SH §8369).

And when we do what we know to be right, we feel happy. We feel joy. So the reading from Apocalypse Explained says that all joy of heart is from spiritual good, “for spiritual good is the… love of spiritual truth” (§458.5). When we love spiritual truth, and therefore do it, the result is good and that good makes us happy. All of this is what palm branches symbolize. And the reading says that, because of this symbolism, people in ancient times used to hold palm branches in their hands to “testify to their joy of heart”—joy that comes from believing and living a truth. That’s why people chose palms when the Lord rode into Jerusalem. They may not have understood all of the symbolism that we’ve just gone over, but they knew—because it was in the Old Testament, and because it was an ancient custom—that palm branches were symbolic.

Elsewhere in the Heavenly Doctrine the symbolism of palms is explained a little bit differently. In the book Apocalypse Revealed we read that, “Holding palm branches in the hands symbolizes confessions springing from Divine truths because palm branches symbolize Divine truths” (§367). We’ve got the same basic components in this statement as in the longer reading from Apocalypse Explained: something about truth and something about declaring that truth, or testifying to it. But the word “confession” is one that we need to take time to understand. A “confession” is a heartfelt acknowledgment of something. Nowadays this word is mostly used when people acknowledge bad things that they’ve done—people confess their sins, or confess to their crimes. But the word doesn’t have to have such a narrow meaning: we can confess good things too. When the Heavenly Doctrine talks about confessing the Lord, or about confessions springing from Divine truths, it’s talking about a heartfelt acknowledgment of who the Lord is and what He does. And what He does is really, really good. So confessing the Lord actually means something very similar to thanking the Lord, and also praising the Lord (cf. the translation of Is. 51:3 in SH §100). With these ideas in mind, you can maybe start to see the overlap between “confessions springing from Divine truths” and “testifying to your joy of heart.” The spirit that these phrases capture is the spirit that’s symbolized by holding up palm branches to the Lord.

All of the details in the Palm Sunday story symbolize things that have to do with truth. We’ve already talked about the palm branches. The clothes that people spread on the road and placed on the donkey for the Lord to sit on also symbolize truths (cf. Matt. 21:7, 8; Mark 11:7, 8; Luke 19:35, 36)—our own truths, or our own ideas, which we lay down before Him. We’re told that when the disciples put their garments on the donkey, this represented “the recognition that truths in their entirety were the foundation on which the Lord as supreme Judge and King rested” (SH §9212.6). The donkey itself symbolized that the Lord was the supreme Judge and King—and again, that symbolism would have been known to the people who were present at the time. In ancient Israel, judges and kings rode on donkeys (SH §2781.7-8, 9212.5-6). So those people shouted out that the Lord was the king of Israel (John 12:13). And in the Heavenly Doctrine we’re told that, “the title ‘king’ in reference to the Lord symbolizes Divine truth” (AR §664). Palm Sunday is all about celebrating and declaring truths.

And what truths did the people declare when the Lord rode into Jerusalem? There are two that come to mind. They called Him the King of Israel, and He is a king—He’s the King of Heaven, and of all creation. But before those people shouted out that He was king, they shouted out “Hosanna,” which means “save us” (John 12:13). By shouting this, they were declaring that the Lord could save them—that He had the power to save them. So, essentially, they were declaring the same truth that was declared by that multitude in our recitation from Revelation—the multitude who held palm branches in their hands and cried out, “Salvation belongs to our God who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb!” (7:10)

The Lord is King, and salvation is His. Within the context of Christianity, these truths are a given. If you’ve grown up in the church, then you’ve heard these truths all your life. They’re the basic teachings of the church. But think about the difference between knowing these truths and confessing them—lifting them up to testify to your joy of heart, because you love these truths and you’re willing to live in their light.

Take the truth that salvation is the Lord’s. We need the Lord to save us. If we know this truth, but don’t confess it, the result can be that this truth makes us feel anxious: what if He doesn’t save us? We’d better cross our spiritual t’s and dot our spiritual i’s, or else we won’t secure His salvation. We can hold that truth so differently: the Lord is salvation! He has all power in heaven and on earth to save us, to make us safe, and that power can be with us now. He can save our souls: He can surround our souls with safety, safety that the world cannot take from us. Confess that truth—testify to it with joy. “Hosanna! Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord!” (John 12:13)

Or take the truth that the Lord is King. The Lord is in charge—He’s the boss, and we’re not, and so on. We can understand this truth and find no joy in it; we can even resent it, because it means that we should probably do what He says. But the truth that the Lord is King is something to celebrate—because if He’s in charge of this crazy world, then maybe the world isn’t as crazy as it seems. Sure, a lot of stuff goes wrong, and we sure don’t have the power to fix it. But if the Lord is King then there is something good reigning over all of this—and justice will prevail in the end, because a Divine king would never permit it to be otherwise. That’s a truth that we can celebrate.

This particular church, the Pittsburgh New Church, hasn’t historically been one in which people shout out praises during worship. And that’s fine—there are lots of different ways to worship, and they all have their own merits. We don’t need to literally shout out praises; but we are meant to do more than think about the truth. Just because we know a truth doesn’t mean that we get it. Ultimately we’re meant to do what the truth teaches us to do—but while we’re on that road it’s also good to look for and celebrate the goodness of those basic truths about the Lord and His kingdom. Yes, we know them. Do we confess them? Do we rejoice in them? We can do these things together—for example, when we sing during Sunday worship. We’re also called to do them individually, in our prayers and in our lives. Do we lift up those palm branches in our own spirits? Do we cry “Hosanna” to the Lord?

Amen.

The First Commandment

Rev. Jared Buss

Pittsburgh New Church; April 6, 2025

Readings: John 12:1-11 (children’s talk); Deuteronomy 15:7-11; Secrets of Heaven §§2023, 1150

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           The first of all the commandments is that we’re to love the Lord with all we have (Mark 12:29, 30). It’s easy to recognize that this commandment is important… but to actually keep it is a tall order. What would it look like if we were to actually put this commandment first? That’s what we’re going to be exploring today.

The story of Mary anointing the Lord’s feet is about loving the Lord. It’s easy enough to see that what she did was an act of love. Of course, we don’t have the opportunity to literally anoint the Lord’s feet. But there are ways in which we can follow Mary’s example.

            But this story is challenging in a couple of different ways; so let’s talk about the challenging parts. If we’re thinking that we’re meant to follow Mary’s example, then what’s probably most challenging about this story is the degree to which she physically humbles herself before Jesus. Of course the Lord, if He’s the Lord, is great and worthy of our reverence. But it’s one thing to think that, and another to be willing to do what Mary did. Would we be willing to wipe his feet with our hair? We’ll come back to these ideas later on.

            The other aspect of this story that might feel challenging is the statement the Lord makes about the poor. Judas says that the oil could have been sold and the money given to the poor, but the Lord sets that suggestion aside. He says, “For the poor you have with you always” (John 12:8). It might sound like He’s saying, “There are always going to be poor people—you’re never going to be able to fix that problem, so don’t bother trying. Spend your money on symbolic things instead.” But that’s not what He’s saying. His statement about the poor is actually an allusion to a passage from the book of Deuteronomy; and if we know what that passage says, then the Lord’s words in today’s story from John land pretty differently. Here’s that passage from Deuteronomy: [read 15:7-11].

            The Lord absolutely wants His people to help the poor and the needy. He says, “the poor will never cease from the land; therefore I command you, saying, ‘You shall open your hand wide to your brother, to your poor and your needy, in your land’” (Deut. 15:11). In other words, the poor and the needy are always going to be there, and that’s precisely why we need to be willing to help them. The people who were with the Lord in Lazarus’s house in Bethany probably would have been familiar with the book of Deuteronomy. So perhaps when Jesus said “the poor you have with you always,” they remembered that Deuteronomy says, “the poor will never cease from the land.” The Lord wasn’t telling them that selling the oil of spikenard and giving the money to the poor was a bad idea—ministering to the needy is an ongoing labor that He expects His people to participate in. It was just that ministering to Him—anointing His feet with the oil—was also a good thing to do. It was a “both/and,” not an “either/or.”

            Here are a few more thoughts about that passage from Deuteronomy: There was a reference in the middle of it to “the year of release” (v. 9). The passage indicates that people might be reluctant to lend to their neighbors if they know that the year of release is close at hand. Earlier in this chapter from Deuteronomy, the Lord tells His people that every seventh year is to be a year of release: in that seventh year, all debts are to be completely forgiven (vv. 1, 2). So if you lent something to somebody during the first year, your debtor would have six years in which to pay you back, and your investment would probably be returned to you. But if you lent something near the end of the sixth year you almost certainly weren’t going to get it back, because when that seventh year began the debt would be wiped out. The Lord tells His people not to think this way. He tells them to simply give what is needed. He says that if they do, He will bless them in all their works and in all to which they put their hand (v. 10).

            It’s also noteworthy that this passage keeps on using the words “brethren” and “brother.” “You shall open your hand wide to your brother” (v. 11) This is because of the spiritual meaning of these words: “brothers” symbolize charity, or states of charity in other people (AR §32; SH 2360.2; AE §746.6). The point is that we’re meant to serve the charity or the good in other people—when we serve our neighbor, we should be trying to make what is good increase. To do this, we have to serve thoughtfully and with good judgment. You can’t really go wrong with giving food to the hungry, but if you give money to someone who then uses that money to buy illegal drugs, nothing good has been accomplished. This idea helps us refine our concept of what it really means to serve the neighbor—what it doesn’t do is excuse us from serving the neighbor. That’s a labor that the Lord expects us to participate in.

Today’s sermon is about loving the Lord, not about loving the neighbor. But if we’re going to understand what it means to love the Lord, we need to understand how important it is to Him that we show charity to our neighbors. If you love someone, you do what they want. In John the Lord says, “If you love Me, keep My commandments” (14:15), and He also says, “This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you” (15:12). And in the Heavenly Doctrine of the New Church we’re told: [read SH §2023].

If you want to love the Lord, serve your neighbor. Love the people that He loves. If we were to perform innumerable acts of devotion, and kneel before the Lord just as Mary did, but we thought nothing of our neighbor and despised acts of charity, our devotion would be meaningless to Him. If we’re going to keep the first commandment, and love the Lord, we have to keep the second commandment, and love our neighbor.

But there’s more to it than that. Mary anointed the Lord’s feet with costly oil, oil that could have been used to help the poor, and the Lord said that what she did was good. It’s not that giving to the poor would have been bad—it’s just that what Mary did was also good. It’s a both/and, not an either/or. Loving the Lord definitely involves serving the neighbor, but there’s more to it than that.  Because we can serve the neighbor without letting the Lord come anywhere near our hearts. That’s what we see in Judas: he said that Mary should have served the poor, instead of anointing the Lord’s feet, but he said that because was the keeper of the money box, and he knew that if that oil had been sold, he would have been able to pocket a bit of the profit. So people’s motives for performing acts of charity aren’t always heaenly. Even if we aren’t thieves or purely in it for ourselves, like Judas was, we sometimes do good deeds with ourselves in view. We do good deeds so that we can hang trophies on the wall in a secret room inside our minds. The good deeds are still being done, and the neighbor is still benefiting, but we aren’t keeping the first commandment when we do good without ever lifting up our minds to the Lord.

The point of all of this is that we’re called, or invited, to make room in our lives for moments in which we express love directly to the Lord. We’re invited to make room for acts of love and devotion to Him—like the act that Mary performed when she anointed the Lord’s feet instead of giving money to the poor. We probably shouldn’t try too hard to pin down exactly what these acts of love and devotion are supposed to look like or feel like. But a phrase that’s worth reflecting on is “adoration of the Lord.” We turn now to our final reading for today, which is also from the Heavenly Doctrine of the New Church [read SH §1150].

The essential in all worship is adoration of the Lord from the heart. Worship, of course, is what we do in church on Sunday… but it’s more than that. Worship is a way of life (see SH §§1618, 7884). If we’re going to live that life—a life that has God in the midst of it—adoration of the Lord from the heart is essential. Now in this context, the word “adoration” doesn’t mean what it might mean in an everyday context. In everyday life, if you say you adore something, that probably means you think it’s cute. “Adoration” is sometimes used to describe silly kinds of love. But the word “adoration” originally had to do with worship. In this passage from the Heavenly Doctrine, “adoration” describes the feelings and the attitudes and the behaviors that are proper to worship. Instead of “adoration from the heart” you could also say “heartfelt reverence”—maybe that makes the concept easier to understand. But that word “heartfelt” needs to be there. This passage isn’t talking about a motion that we go through or a posture that we assume with our bodies when we come to church: it’s talking about an affection. It’s talking about adoration of the Lord.

That final reading said again what was said already: that we can’t actually adore the Lord, or love the Lord, unless love to the neighbor is present with us. Love to the Lord and love to the neighbor are inseparable. But again, this doesn’t mean that if we do a good deed for a neighbor, we automatically check both boxes. We do express love for the Lord when we obey His commandments and serve the people He loves; but it’s also good, and important, to approach Him directly, like Mary does in the story from John.

There are two important questions that follow from these ideas. The first is, what does adoration of the Lord look like—how do we do it? The second is, are we willing to do it?

There are actions that the Word teaches us to take that are clearly meant to set the stage for adoration of the Lord. Sunday worship is an opportunity to practice adoration of the Lord. Yes, it’s good if people learn something when they come to church on Sunday—but more fundamentally, the reason we’re supposed to come to church is that it’s a way of showing that the Lord is important to us, an opportunity to show that we care about the Lord. Praying is another action we’re taught to take. We can pray to the Lord anytime, anywhere; and when our prayers are heartfelt, we’re communicating our affection to Him directly. That can be adoration of the Lord. But of course, we’re talking about things that are very personal. No one can tell us what to feel, or how to express our feelings. So we come back to the question that the children were asked: what will you do to show the Lord that He’s important to you?

I said earlier that we would revisit Mary’s physical gestures of humility. She made herself very low before the Lord. She had to, if she was going to wipe his feet with her hair. She anointed Him with oil, and that oil represents love—love that she poured out to Him. The fragrance of that oil filled the house. Was humbling herself the way she did a necessary part of her expression of love? In many ways the answer is yes. Love and humility are intertwined. If you really love someone, you don’t think twice about serving them. Especially if that someone is the Lord.

Mary didn’t have to do what she did. No one made her do it, and that’s important. Affection can’t be compelled. She wanted to adore the Lord. Would we be willing to do what she did? Are we willing to set ourselves aside so completely, and show Him our affection and our gratitude? If we were so willing, what would we do about it?

Amen.

Because I Live

Rev. Jared Buss

Pittsburgh New Church; March 30, 2025

Readings: John 11:20-44; Revelation 1:17, 18; Apocalypse Revealed §58

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            The Lord says, “I am the resurrection and the life” (John 11:25). He doesn’t say that He’s alive, or that He has life. He says He is life. And that’s the idea we’re going to be focusing on today—the idea that all life, including the life that we feel within ourselves right now, is the Lord’s.

            The number of passages in the Word that assert this truth is significant. Clearly this is an idea that we’re supposed to pay attention to. We’re only going to hear a few of those passages today. Our first reading is from the first chapter of the book of Revelation. This is a description of what happens after John sees the vision of the Lord in the midst of the seven lampstands. We read: [vv. 17, 18].

            So John is overwhelmed by what he sees, and he falls down as dead. But the Lord touches him, to comfort and revive him (v. 17). And as He comforts John, the Lord says, “I am He who lives” (v. 18). Now we’re going to turn to the Heavenly Doctrine of the New Church, and look at what we’re taught in the book Apocalypse Revealed about the meaning of these words. This reading is printed on the back of your worship handout. We read: [§58].

            There are a lot of important statements in that reading. “There is only one life, namely God.” We are merely recipients of His life. And He is life because He is love and wisdom—these things constitute life. The fire in our hearts and the light in our minds are what make us feel alive. That fire and that light are the Lord’s. The bottom line is just what the Lord says in that closing quote from the gospel of John: “Because I live, you will live also” (14:9). We live because He lives.

            So why is this teaching significant? Rather, what changes when we understand it? It’s one of those ideas that’s easy to accept in a general way and hard to accept in a specific way. If God is God, then of course life, in general, comes from Him. That isn’t so hard to believe. But to believe that my life—the life that I feel in my mind and in my body right now—is His is a little more challenging. It takes some humility to accept this. Actually it takes a lot of humility. Humility doesn’t always come easily. But if we push ourselves into a humble state of mind, what we find is that humility is liberating. Because we get to stop pretending. Yes, we depend on God. He gives us everything, which means that we have everything to be grateful for. To see our lives that way is wonderful.

            And of course, we all want to feel alive; and if we want to feel that way, we should know where to find life. Medically speaking we’re all completely alive. We’ve all got beating hearts. But it’s obvious that there’s more to life than having organs that function. People sometimes say that they don’t really feel alive. Think of someone who lives to work—someone who has no time for anything except work and maybe a bit of sleep. Or think of someone who’s incapable of trying anything new, because they live in fear. We might say that those people aren’t really living.

            People try lots of things to make themselves feel more alive. Some of these things are constructive—or at least not destructive. They go for walks in gardens. They take vacations. They splash cold water on their faces. But people also do destructive things in the name of “really living.” They take crazy risks. They do things that are deeply selfish, imagining that selfishness will make them feel free and therefore more alive. We all want to feel alive. It makes such a difference to know where that feeling actually comes from.

            Our reading from Apocalypse Revealed said that people are merely recipients of life. This is one of those foundational truths that the Heavenly Doctrine repeats over and over. So, for example, in the book Secrets of Heaven we’re told: “A person is nothing other than an organ or vessel which receives life from the Lord, for a person does not live of himself” (§3318.2). We are organs that receive life—just like a lung is an organ that receives oxygen. We can also think of ourselves as vessels that receive life. A “vessel” can be a cup or a bowl, and that image works well enough—we hold up the cup, and the Lord fills it. But there are also vessels in our bodies. Maybe when that passage says that we’re vessels that receive the Lord’s life, the real meaning is that we’re like blood vessels through which His life runs.

            If we think of ourselves as organs or vessels that receive life, then our responsibility or our role in the process of living becomes clear: we need to make ourselves ready to receive. A cup cant receive anything if it’s turned upside down. A clogged or blocked blood vessel can’t do its job, and can even cause us to die. We need to clean out the vessel, and turn it right way round. Here’s what we’re taught in Secrets of Heaven:

On account of the hereditary evil into which a person is born, and on account of the evil of his own doing which a person acquires to himself, these vessels with him are set the wrong way round for receiving [the life that flows from the Lord’s love]. But insofar as it is possible for this inflowing life to do so, it resets those vessels to receive it. (§3318.2)

This passage goes on to say that the vessels in our minds can’t be reset until the selfish loves that hold them in place are softened. Love of self and love of the world calcify our minds and keep them in an unreceptive state. That calcification needs to be broken up, and this is accomplished by temptations. Temptations are about letting go of the hard loves we cling to—especially our pride. Pride is the most brittle of all things. To relinquish those hard things is to choose humility, which is soft. Humility is willing to be worked with. When the Lord’s love flows into a willing mind, it resets those vessels that were turned the wrong way round. Little by little His inflowing life takes those parts of us that were backwards and brittle and selfish, and heals them, so that we can receive His life—and feel His life—like never before (see §3318.3, 4).

            What this means in practice is that we feel more alive the more we cooperate with the Lord—the more we work with Him, the more we listen to Him, the more we obey Him. We feel more alive the more we “do it His way.” And that’s because all of the teachings that He gives us in His Word are instructions on how to turn the cup the right way round. He tells us not to murder, commit adultery, steal or lie—and that’s because those behaviors invert and calcify our minds. To put it really simply, we feel more alive when we do the right thing. Because when we do the right thing the Lord can be present, and the Lord is life.

            The catch is that we don’t feel more alive when we do the right thing, and then try to fill our own cups. It’s not uncommon for people to lead functional, orderly lives, and wonder why they don’t feel happier. The problem may well be that they’re trying to do it on their own—from themselves and not from the Lord. We can check all the right boxes on the outside—get our work done, drive the speed limit, clean the house and kiss the kids goodnight—but if we aren’t choosing to open our spirits to the Lord, then there’s no life flowing into us to fill those good deeds. We’re meant to be like blood vessels through which His flows. The vessel needs to be open at both ends. Love and life are meant to flow from Him into the works of our hands, and so into the world. If we’re doing the right things, the vessel is open at the bottom; but if it’s pride that’s driving us to do the right things, then the vessel is closed at the top. That stream of life—that awareness of being unexpectedly filled with the breath of life—comes to us when we wrestle our pride to the ground. When in our hearts we say, “Thy will be done” (Matt. 6:10; Luke 11:2).

            Of course there’s that part of us that doesn’t trust the Lord—that doesn’t believe that obeying Him will make us happier than doing what we want, doesn’t believe that we’re stronger when we admit we need Him, doesn’t believe that humility will set us free. It appears to us that we live on our own and that we’re happiest when we rule our own lives—and to our pride, anything that challenges these appearances is a threat. The Lord’s teachings, the teachings we’ve looked at today, can feel threatening. Trusting Him—believing Him—is something we choose to do. In John He says, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live. And whoever lives and believes in Me shall never die. Do you believe this?” (11:25, 26). The first step is to believe Him; the goal is to live and believe in Him. In Secrets of Heaven we’re told:

[Evil spirits cannot comprehend] that they do not start to live until the life of evil desires and false persuasions in which they are immersed is annihilated. They believe that if they were deprived of these no life at all could possibly be left to them, whereas the truth of the matter is that once they have got rid of the life of evil desires and of false persuasions they start to live for the first time…. (§2889)

When we get rid of the junk and let the Lord flow in, we start to live for the first time. We won’t know what we’ve been missing until we give Him a chance.

            He wants us to feel alive. He wants that because He loves us, and He knows that if we didn’t feel alive we would have no identity, and could feel no joy. Here’s another teaching from Secrets of Heaven:

The reason why the life which comes from the Lord alone seems to everyone to be intrinsically his own lies in the Lord’s love or mercy towards the whole human race. That is to say, His will is to make that which is His every person’s own and to confer eternal happiness on every person. (§4320).

Life is His, but He lets us feel His life as though it were our own because He loves us. It’s that simple. The takeaway from this is that He doesn’t want us to feel like we have no life or identity of our own. He doesn’t want us to feel like we’re just extensions of Himself, or like we’re just robots that are operated by His spirit. He wants us to feel alive, and free.

            It seems like a paradox, but we’re told that the more closely we’re conjoined with the Lord, the more distinctly we appear to ourselves to be our own person, and at the same time, the more clearly we recognize that we are the Lord’s (Divine Providence §42). The angels in heaven know that the Lord alone is life. They can actually feel His life flowing into them. They know that it would be outrageous for them to claim that they have anything good apart from Him. They also know that He wants them to make His life their own—so they make it their own (Secrets of Heaven §3742). They live the life He gives them. They are alive, and they are free.

That’s what He wants for us. He says, “Because I live, you will live also” (John 14:9).

Amen.

In Full Measure

Rev. Jared Buss

Pittsburgh New Church; March 23, 2025

Readings: Mark 12:41-44 (children’s talk); Luke 6:37-45; Secrets of Heaven §2057.2

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           What we’re going to talk about now is the love that the Lord wants us to have for our neighbors. We know we’re supposed to be loving. Nobody says otherwise. But there’s loving and then there’s loving. Believe it or not, we can love the people around us more and better than we do right now. When it comes to love, the ceiling is high. Astonishingly high. And the more we love the better our lives will be. The Lord challenges us to love more than we do right now—and He also promises us that we can.

            To begin with, we’re going to revisit what He says in the gospel of Luke, chapter 6—the passage from which our recitation was taken. The recitation is all about love. I’ll reread the recitation, and then we’ll hear what the Lord says in the verses that follow [read vv. 37-45].

            We already talked about giving in full measure. That’s what the Lord wants us to do. Give to other people. Give them your all. He’s going to take the measure that we give Him and fill it to overflowing (v. 38)—and the best response to that spirit of generosity is to gratefully pay it forward. In another part of the Gospel he says, “Freely you have received, freely give” (Matt. 10:8).

            There’s a resonance between the beginning of that reading from Luke and the end of it. Near the beginning the Lord says, “Give, and it will be given to you” (v. 38), and near the end He says, “A good person out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good” (v. 45). What He wants us to do is take the good things—the treasures—that are in our hearts, and bring them forth. Give them away.

It's important to note that He also says that our love can be like His love. “A disciple is not above his teacher, but everyone who is perfectly trained will be like his teacher” (v. 40). He is our teacher. We can’t be above Him, but our love can be like His love.

            The next thing the Lord says in that reading is that we’re not here to fix other people. We’re not here to tell other people what they’re doing wrong, or how they could love better. It’s not the speck in our brother’s eye that we need to worry about—it’s the plank in our own eye (vv. 41, 42). At the end of that reading He talks about bringing forth good fruit. He says that “every tree is known by its own fruit” (v. 44). Are we bearing good fruit? That’s the question that we need to concern ourselves with. Not what that guy’s doing, or that guy or that guy. Are we going good, or doing evil? That’s the measurement that matters.

            The message of today’s sermon, if it’s distilled into a single statement, is that giving to other people in full measure will make us happier than any other thing can. You could also simply say that loving other people will make us happier than any other thing can. This is not a revolutionary idea. It’s not hard to accept. But it’s one thing to nod when we hear statements like these, and another thing to really live like they’re true. In practice, today’s message is challenging. It challenges everybody in at least two ways.

            First, the Lord asks us to love so much—to be so unselfish. The ceiling is so high! It can be hard to believe that we’re capable of that kind of love. It’s much easier to say, “Sure I’ll be loving… but on my terms. I’d like to stay in my comfort zone, thank you.” Which amounts to saying, “I like the idea of love, but I’m not sure I can love that much.” And the second reason why today’s message is challenging is that there’s always that part of us that simply doesn’t agree that putting others first is what’s going to make us happy. There’s always the voice that says, “Actually it’s my turn to be first. This time it’s about me. I do want the biggest piece of cake.” There’s something in us that insists that we’re happiest when we do what we want. The Lord’s message in Luke 6 and in other parts of the Word contradicts that part of us. In that sense, His message is challenging. It’s easy to nod and accept what He says, but hard to really believe it—because to believe it is to do it.

            What we’re going to do now is consider some teachings that illustrate why it is that loving as the Lord wants us to love really does make us happier than any other thing can. These teachings also make it easier to see what it means to love as He wants us to love—because love and the happiness that comes from love are inseparable. If we understand one, we understand the other. And finally we’re going to consider the most important question, which is: how do we receive this kind of love? How do we learn to love more or to love better than we already do?

            We’re going to turn, now, to a teaching from the Heavenly Doctrine of the New Church, from a book called Secrets of Heaven. This teaching is about heavenly love, which is also called mutual love. In other words, it’s about the love that’s shared by everyone who goes to heaven. And it makes it easy to see why unselfish love makes people happier than selfish love. The teaching is printed on the back of your worship handout, in case you want to follow along while you listen. We read: [§2057.2].

            The angels in heaven love their neighbor more than they love themselves. Angels, by the way, are simply people who have died and woken up in the spiritual world, and chosen to live in heaven, because the love that fills the heavens matches the love that they have chosen for themselves. The Lord hopes that we will become angels. But the angels in heaven love everyone else in heaven more than they love themselves. That’s a high bar. The thing is, the angels still get more than they give. They give everything away, and they still get more than they give. Because everyone in heaven loves unselfishly, there’s a sense in which each of them is at the center of heaven. The reading said that, “The heavenly form is such that everyone is at it were a kind of center, thus a center of communications, and consequently of happinesses, from all.”

This becomes easier to understand if we make the scale a lot smaller. Imagine a room occupied by ten people, and each of the people in that room loves their neighbor more than they love themselves. Everyone in that room would lay down their life for anyone else in the room, if they had do. Everyone in that room is therefore receiving all of the love that nine other people have to give. Now imagine a room occupied by ten people who love themselves most of all. When push comes to shove, each of the ten people in that second room will take what they want, even if that means taking it from somebody else. Everyone in that second room is receiving all of the love that they can give themselves—and that’s it. They’ve each got one person looking out for them. But the people in the first room each had nine people looking out for them.

And if the number of people in each room was increased to a hundred, then everyone in the first room would be surrounded by ninety-nine other people who were prepared to sacrifice something for their happiness, while the people in the second room would still only have one person looking out for them. Selfish love can never be bigger or more powerful than we are ourselves—and we aren’t very big or very powerful. At least, not when it comes to spiritual things. But unselfish love is boundless. It only grows the more it’s shared. So the reading from Secrets of Heaven says, “on this account, as the Lord’s kingdom increases, so the happiness of each angel increases.”

In another part of the Heavenly Doctrine—in a book called Divine Love and Wisdom—we find a passage that says, “to feel another’s joy as joy in oneself, that is loving” (§47). This is a really good definition of love. And this statement also illuminates how it is that unselfish love makes us so happy. When we love other people, we feel their joy as joy within ourselves. Imagine watching a child that you love at play. Let’s say she has a doll, and she’s feeding toy vegetables to her doll, and she’s having a grand old time. Left to yourself, you’d probably find no delight whatsoever in dolls or wooden onions—but because you love that child, you rejoice to watch her play. Her joy gives you joy. And think how happy we would be if we could rejoice that much in all of the good things that all of our neighbors enjoy.

That passage from Divine Love and Wisdom goes on to say, “But to feel one’s own joy in another and not the other’s joy in oneself is not loving.” And this qualification is important, because sometimes we think we’re loving unselfishly when actually we aren’t. Sometimes we feel our own joy in someone else, and we think that that’s the same thing as loving generously, the way the Lord teaches us to love. In other words, sometimes we mistake “this person makes me happy” for “I love this person.” If we value someone primarily because they make us happy, then we’re liable to stop valuing them as soon as they stop making us happy. And of course this isn’t love. It’s fundamentally selfish. Real love looks to the other person’s happiness, not to our own. “To feel another’s joy as joy in oneself, that is loving.”

So we come back to the idea that love—the love the Lord wants for us—involves giving it all away. Giving in full measure. Being willing to put ourselves last, if that would be useful. This spirit that gives away all the love it has always ends up with more than it had to begin with.

Now we come to our final question: how do we love this way? How do we learn to be so unselfish? How do we find it in ourselves to give so much, when we don’t feel like we have that much to give? The Lord gives us an answer to these questions, right there in our recitation from Luke: “Judge not, and you will not be judged. Condemn not, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Give, and it will be given to you” (6:37, 38).

It will be given to you. Love is the Lord’s to give. Our job is to prepare our container—our measure—to receive what He gives. And the first thing we need to do is make sure that that container isn’t full of judgment and condemnation and unforgiveness. If contempt or resentment is governing the way we regard people, how can we expect ourselves to feel a generous outpouring of love towards those people? In Isaiah the Lord says, “cease to do evil, learn to do good” (1:16, 17), and it’s pretty clear that we need to do those two things in that order. Evil is like dirt. If you’ve got dirt in your cup, and you want to give your neighbor a drink of water, the first thing you need to do is clean your cup. We love better when we put effort into cleaning up on the inside.

The hard part is that contempt and self-righteousness and unforgiveness—and all other evils—like to hide. The parts of our minds that house these things do their best to stay out of the light. That’s what last week’s sermon was all about. This is why spiritual growth takes time. This is why the ability to love as the angels love is something that we grow into—not something that we have as soon as we decide that we want to have it. We need to work with the Lord to bring His light all the way down into the caverns of our hearts, so that He can drive away the things that inhibit our ability to love. This takes time, and that’s okay.

In the meantime, it’s good to know what the goal is. It’s good to remember that the Lord thinks we’re capable of loving like the angels love. He believes that we can learn to give in full measure. He made us to love that way. Love is the Lord’s to give; and if it’s His to give, and our hearts have room to receive it, then who or what can stop us from loving? In the 23rd psalm, the psalmist says to the Lord:

You anoint my head with oil;

My cup runs over.

Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me

All the days of my life;

And I will dwell in the house of the Lord

Forever. (vv. 5, 6)

Amen.

Coming Into the Light

Rev. Jared Buss

Pittsburgh New Church; March 17, 2025

Readings: 2 Samuel 7:12-22 (children’s talk); 2 Samuel 12:1-10; Secrets of Heaven §10661

            We’re going to turn, now, to another story about King David—a story that’s very different from the one that we just talked about. In the story we just talked about, we see some of David’s best qualities: we see his devotion to the Lord. This next story is about one of David’s lowest moments. It’s about the aftermath of his affair with Bathsheba. Here’s a summary of that affair: David committed adultery with Bathsheba while her husband, Uriah, was away at war, fighting in David’s army (2 Sam. 11:1-14). Later Bathsheba sent word to David, informing him that she was pregnant (v. 5). For a while David somewhat desperately tried to hide what he’d done; the “solution” he eventually fell back on was to arrange to have Uriah killed in the midst of a battle (vv. 6-25). So David committed adultery, and he committed murder.

We’re not going to spend any more time talking about these things that he did. It’s obvious that he shouldn’t have done them. Instead, we’re going to focus on the aftermath of these things. David tried to resume normal life. He married Bathsheba (v. 27), and her child was accepted as his legitimate child. For a time it seemed that his secrets were going to stay secret. Uriah’s death seemed like just a casualty of war. It seemed that David had simply married Uriah’s widow.

And at this point it’s useful to remember the story that was read to the children—useful to remember that the Word doesn’t present David as someone who was bad through and through. He had a relationship with the Lord. He thought of himself as a servant of the Lord. In many ways he was a servant of the Lord. The Lord was with David. David probably thought of himself as “mostly a good person.” In the wake of his affair with Bathsheba he probably felt ashamed and afraid, and he wanted to leave all of those things behind and hide them, and go back to being “mostly a good person.” Now we’re going to hear how that went. We’re going to hear about the message that the Lord sent to David, after all these things had happened [read 2 Sam. 12:1-10].

David thought that his secret was secret. It didn’t occur to him that Nathan’s story was about what he himself had done—because he didn’t think that Nathan knew about those things. He thought that Nathan was reporting to him about a real situation. So he pronounced judgment on this heartless man who had stolen a poor person’s lamb. Then Nathan told him, “You are the man” (v. 7). And think of how those words must have terrified David. All of the veils that covered his secret were ripped apart at once.

The thing that’s most remarkable about this passage is that, before he realized that Nathan’s words were a parable, David was genuinely outraged with this rich man who stole from the poor. The story says that his “anger was greatly aroused against the man” (v. 5). He knew exactly how wrong this rich man’s actions were, and he was upset by them. But in this rich man’s actions he saw no reflection of the things that he had done.

To David’s credit, he stopped hiding from the truth as soon as Nathan finished speaking. What he said in response to Nathan was simply, “I have sinned against the Lord” (v. 13). But up until that moment he’d been holding a double standard: for other people to abuse power and prey upon the weak was outrageous, but he was allowed to do those things himself.

 Of course, David isn’t the only person ever to have held a double standard. Everybody tends to see other people’s actions one way, and their own actions another way—even when the actions are essentially the same. So, for example, we might aggressively tell someone to stop speaking to us so aggressively. We might judgmentally observe that that other person is so judgmental. The Heavenly Doctrine of the New Church has this to say:

It is extraordinary how anyone can scold another intending to do evil and say to him: “Don’t do that, because it is a sin,” but he finds it very difficult to say that to himself. The reason is that saying it to oneself involves the will, but saying it to someone else merely comes from a level of thought not far removed from hearing. (TCR §535)

In short, it’s much easier to see sins in other people than to see them in ourselves. The reason for this is that seeing sins, or flaws, in other people doesn’t require us to do anything more than think about them. It’s easy to think that this or that is bad. But to see sins, or flaws, or bad behavior in ourselves, we have to dig into our will—what we want. Because things that we want don’t feel bad, even if they are bad. So we have to recognize and acknowledge that gap between what we want and the truth—and that takes work.

            What we’re really focusing on today is this idea that things that we want don’t feel bad, even if they are bad. Another way to put it is, evil is something that other people do. What we do never feels evil to us—at least not in the moment—because we want to do it. And what we want feels good. The Heavenly Doctrine says that a person, “calls good everything that he feels with delight” (AR §908). But our ears still hear the truth. Our brains still know what’s right and what’s wrong. So there’s a gap between what we know and what we feel. And often, instead of letting the one confront the other, we hide them from each other. We let the light of truth shine on other people, but not on our own affections. At least, that’s our tendency. And what we’re talking about today is the difficult work of pushing past that tendency. If we’re going to be good people, we have to be so honest with ourselves. Way more honest than we often want to be. We have to let the Lord’s light shine on all of us—even the bad stuff.

            One of the lies that hell tries to tell us is that if we’re honest about a failing in ourselves—if we admit that it’s known to the Lord, and especially if we admit that it’s known to other people—then that evil is branded upon us. Our identity is cemented: we’re the person who does that bad thing. Hell whispers all kinds of lies about how we can never change—our sin is an anchor that will forever drag us down. But it’s the other way around: when we’re honest about our failings it becomes easier to escape from them. And the more honest we are, the easier it becomes. The Lord’s light is a healing light.

            We’re going to turn, now, to a longer reading from the Heavenly Doctrine, which explores some of these ideas in more detail. This reading is from Secrets of Heaven, and it’s printed on the back of your worship handout [read §10661].

            Left to ourselves, we’re “completely in the dark so far as spiritual things are concerned.” Left to ourselves, we just don’t know about the Lord or eternal life. In a different passage we’re told that at the start our lives we really know nothing at all about the good of charity, or how happy that good can make us (SH §8462). Left to ourselves, all that we know has regard to the world and to ourselves. And the things that we call good are worldly things that benefit us—like being wealthy, for example, or having things go the way we want them to go. And we just don’t really get that when we take what we want, but at someone else’s expense, that’s evil. This is why we need to be taught from the Word. We need the light of the Lord’s truth to shine on us. Learning that truth isn’t the point—the point is for us to learn the truth and live it, so that it becomes good. But the light is an absolutely necessary tool. We just don’t know what goodness or what love really is until, somehow, in some way, we let the Divine light show it to us.

Of course no one here is completely in the dark, when it comes to moral and spiritual things, because we’re all adults, and we’ve all been taught something about what’s really good. The hard part is that it isn’t enough to let the light that’s been shared with us stay “up there,” shining on all our lovely thoughts. We need to let it come all the way down, so that it shines on that thing that we just did. We don’t learn the truth so that we can know what good and evil look like in theory, or in other people: we learn it so that we can know what good and evil look like in ourselves. So we need to look at ourselves—really honestly. We need to ask: “According to the truth that I know from the Word of the Lord, what name do I need to give to that thing that I did?”

This kind of honesty isn’t just hard—it’s scary. It can seem to us that if we’ve done something bad, and we let light shine on that bad thing, then we will be judged and damned. But it’s the other way around: the moment in which we choose to be honest is also the moment in which hell’s grip on us begins to weaken. Nathan came to David with a hard message, and David answered, “I have sinned against the Lord.” That was the moment in which he gave up his denial—so it was the moment in which change became possible. The Lord’s light is a healing light.

Listen to what He says in the gospel of John:

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.

He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God. (3:16-21)

The Lord says pretty clearly that people who are doing evil don’t want to come into the light. He also says that the light has come into the world—and clearly He’s talking about Himself. He is the light. And He came into the world because He loved the world. He didn’t come to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. Coming into the light can be so painful—and terrifying—but when we come into the light, we are not inviting the Lord to condemn us. We are doing exactly the opposite.

When we hide from the truth, the hells have all the cards. Because our eyes are closed—so they can do what they want. And they weave webs to keep us trapped. But when we’re honest with ourselves, things start to become simple again. To come into the light is to say, “I did this, and because I know I did it, I also know I can choose not to do it again.” And the Lord is on our side.

            This is why it’s important to put the David and Bathsheba story in context of David’s whole story. Nathan’s words to David were hard. The message was that adultery and murder are not okay—when we break the Ten Commandments there are painful consequences. David had to face those consequences. But the Lord was with him. He was more than just a sinner. The Lord was with David before Nathan said, “You are the man,” and He was with him afterwards—perhaps more so than before. The light of truth might show us things that we don’t want to see; but if we’re really seeing in the light of truth, we will also see the mercy of the Lord. In His light, we see light (Ps. 36:9).

Amen.

It's Easy to Be Contemptuous

Rev. Jared Buss

Pittsburgh New Church; March 9, 2025

Readings: 2 Samuel 6:14-22 (children’s talk); Secrets of Heaven §4750.5; Matthew 5:38-48

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           Today’s sermon is going to be about contempt. In that reading from 2 Samuel we see a pretty good illustration of contempt: Michal looked down at David as he leapt and whirled before the ark, and she “despised him in her heart” (6:16). And when she spoke to David about what she’d seen, her words dripped with sarcasm: “How glorious was the king of Israel today, uncovering himself in the eyes of the maids of his servants…” (v. 20). We’re not supposed to think of Michal as a villain. There’s an earlier story in which she courageously helps David escape from Saul, her father (1 Sam. 19:11-17). She’s not a bad guy. But what we see in today’s story isn’t one of her finer moments. It’s pretty much a textbook example of raining on somebody’s parade.

            The thing is, her contempt is awfully relatable. It’s easy to imagine her rolling her eyes as she watched David dancing. It’s easy to hear the biting edge in the words she speaks to him. Contempt is a familiar thing. It’s a common thing. In some ways, there isn’t a lot to say about it, because we know we shouldn’t be contemptuous. But it’s easy to be contemptuous. People express contempt, in big ways and in small ways, all the time. And how often do we think contemptuous things, even if we don’t say them aloud?

            So in the first part of this sermon, we’re going to look at some of the things that the Lord teaches about contempt. We’re going to consider what contempt really is, because when we do that it becomes a lot easier to see why we should avoid it. But knowing that contempt is bad isn’t the hard part: the hard part is disentangling ourselves from it. So in the second part of the sermon we’re going to look at some teachings from the Word that can help us resist contempt. And lastly, we’re going to look at what we can do to strengthen ourselves against other people’s contempt.

            There’s no passage in the Scriptures or in the Heavenly Doctrine of the New Church that gives us an exact definition of contempt; but our next reading, which is from the Heavenly Doctrine, gives us a pretty good idea of what it really is. This passage begins by talking about self-love, and as always, it’s important to remember that when the Doctrines talk about self-love, they aren’t talking about taking care of ourselves, or believing that we’re worth taking care of. They’re talking about selfish love—love that puts self above all other things. We read from the book Secrets of Heaven: [§4750.5].

            So, fundamentally, contempt is a symptom or a product of selfish love. The reading spoke of “contempt for others in comparison with oneself,” and that kind of language is common in the Doctrines. Contempt is always about a comparison, and the comparison always favors us. To have contempt for someone is to give ourselves permission to view them as less than ourselves. To have contempt is to dismiss another person—to belittle them, or their ideas, or their feelings. The reading said that self-love is essentially hatred, and it said that contempt is a stronger indicator of the presence of that hatred than “the display of superiority which is called arrogance.” This doesn’t mean that arrogance is good—it isn’t good. But there are passages in the Heavenly Doctrine which indicate that people can have an arrogant or haughty “air” about them and nevertheless be honest people (e.g. SH §2219.5; SE §§4746, 4749). That arrogance is something they’ll have to sort out, but there might be some charity underneath it. Contempt, on the other hand, proceeds more or less directly from hatred.

            This is an alarming teaching, because it’s so easy to be contemptuous! Michal’s disdain for David’s ridiculous dancing is so normal, so relatable. Contempt often flies under the radar when we evaluate what’s good or bad in ourselves or in the world around us. One of the simple takeaways of today’s sermon is that contempt is often just as bad—just as hurtful—as whatever it is that we’re contemptuous of. If not more so.

            The thing is, we always have a reason for our contempt. And most of the time those reasons even make sense. Why did Michal despise David? Well, because his behavior was embarrassing. He was leaping and whirling and showing too much skin in the process. She was kind of right that that behavior didn’t suit the dignity of his position as king. And in addition, he was her husband, so his embarrassing behavior felt personal to her. She had reasons for not liking what she’d seen. But of course, she didn’t have to despise him on account of these things, or speak to him so contemptuously. She could have simply said, “So maybe next time you should wear some trousers under your linen ephod.”

            Sometimes our reason for our contempt is that we find another person’s behavior or opinion silly or stupid or embarrassing. But actually, a lot of the time our reason for feeling contempt is stronger than that: a lot of the time, contempt is our reaction to things that offend us or threaten us. David’s behavior reflected on Michal, because she was his wife, and that’s probably why her reaction to him was so strong. When someone insults us, it’s not uncommon for our reactions to be tinged with contempt. When someone has hurt us, we often want to belittle them in our thoughts. In other words, contempt is often a defense mechanism. It isn’t a good defense mechanism. But at the same time, most of the things that we want to defend ourselves against are real. Most of the time we have good reasons for wanting to defend ourselves. So reacting is justified, but reacting contemptuously is not justified. There’s a simple principle from the Word that can help us navigate this tension, and keep contempt out of our reactions: that principle is “don’t fight evil with evil.” The Lord never uses that specific phrase—but listen to these familiar teachings from the gospel of Matthew: [read 5:38-48].

            These teachings are beautiful, but they’re also challenging. Probably the most challenging thing that the Lord says here is “I tell you not to resist an evil person” (v. 39). Really? We’re not allowed to resist at all? It’s pretty clear that we’re not supposed to fixate on these words and separate them from the rest of what the Lord is saying in this passage. What He’s teaching us to recognize throughout this reading is an internal quality—a spirit that is able to respond with love even in the face of evil. We’re not supposed to fixate on small pieces of the message and separate them from the point He’s making. He doesn’t want us to submit to evil. What would happen to the world if good people never resisted evil people? Neither do we have to let ourselves get slapped around. The point is that we mustn’t respond in kind. Don’t fight evil with evil.

            In the Heavenly Doctrine we read:

Who can fail to see that these words [from Matthew 5] should not be taken literally? Who is going to turn his left jaw to one who has smacked him on the right jaw? … And who will not resist evil? (SH §9049.5)

This passage goes on to say that the reason why evil “should not be resisted” is that “evil can have no harmful effect at all on those governed by truth and good, for they are protected by the Lord” (ibid.). In a different passage we’re told that good people and angels,

… do not wish the retaliation of evil for evil, but from heavenly charity they forgive freely; for they know that the Lord protects from the evil all who are in good, and that He protects according to the good with them, and that He would not protect if on account of the evil done to them they should burn with enmity, hatred, and revenge, for these drive away protection. (AE §556.8)

Clearly the protection that these passages are talking about is primarily spiritual. Evil can hurt our bodies. But it can’t hurt our spirits—not if the Lord is with us. But when we choose hatred and revenge, we drive the Lord and His protection away. So when the Lord tells us to “turn the other cheek,” the point is that answering violence with a spirit that is not violent leaves us stronger and safer than we would be if instead we answered with a violent spirit of our own.

            Contempt is fundamentally hateful. To belittle someone or dismiss them is to lash out at them. Even if we keep silent, and merely think contemptuous things, we’ve still lashed out in spirit. And that’s taking an eye for an eye, or a tooth for a tooth (cf. Matt 5:38). “You hurt me, so I’ll despise you.” That’s fighting evil with evil, and it drives the spirit of the Lord away from us. A little bit of contempt may seem like a small thing, but it’s enough to push away His protection.

            What the Lord tells us to do instead is love our enemies, bless those who curse us, and do good to those who hate us (v. 44). He tells us that if we do these things, we’ll be children of our Father in heaven, “who makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good” (v. 45). With these words He invites us to remember the difference between the dismissive ways that we may be inclined to react to people, and the way that He looks at us. If we can catch even a glimpse of the way He looks at His people, our contempt will wither—because what right do we have to look down on someone that He, the Maker of the universe, loves?

            And of course none of this means that the Lord thinks it’s okay when people do evil to us. Our reasons for feeling bothered by the things that other people have said or done are often real and valid, and we don’t have to like the ways that other people treat us. But the Lord wants us to find safety in Him, and His compassion, instead of arming ourselves with contempt, and defending ourselves that way. The bottom line is “love your enemies.” Don’t fight hate with hate.

            Finding safety in the Lord is also the core of the answer to the last question I said we’d look at today, which was, “how do we strengthen ourselves against other people’s contempt?” People often say things like, “don’t worry too much about what other people think of you.” “Don’t let another person’s opinion be the measure of your worth.” “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” There’s truth in these ideas. But human beings are social by design, and it’s hard for us to truly stop caring about other people’s opinions of us. Besides, we should care at least a little bit about what people think of us. If someone thinks we’re behaving badly, they may have a point. We should at least be willing to listen. But we can’t let someone else’s opinion have too much power over us.

            One thing we can do to find peace in the midst of these tensions is let the Lord’s opinion matter most. Let His opinion of us matter most. Because the Lord is never contemptuous. Never dismissive. Even when we do the wrong thing—when we go astray, like the lost sheep in the parable (Matt. 18:12-14)—we are precious in His sight. He says, “Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish” (v. 14).

            This idea brings us back to the story about David and Michal. Michal said something contemptuous. David’s response to her wasn’t exemplary in every respect, but he got one thing right, which was that he put the Lord first. He said, “It was before the Lord…. Therefore I will play before the Lord. And I will be even more undignified than this, and will be lowly in my own sight” (2 Sam. 6:21, 22). In other words, David said “what does my dignity matter, and what does your contempt matter, if what I do is good in the eyes of the Lord?” One of the many, many good things that comes of following the Lord is that our lives come to be centered on someone who will never put us down. We don’t need to prove anything to Him. He knows our weaknesses, and He knows our potential, and He loves us, right now. What is contempt in the face of His love?

Amen.

Taken Captive

Rev. Jared Buss

Pittsburgh New Church; March 2, 2025

Readings: 1 Samuel 30:1-10, 15-19 (children’s talk); Exodus 17:8-13; Secrets of Heaven §8593

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         The story that was read to the children was about David and his men overcoming in the face of an almost hopeless situation, and rescuing their families. They overcame because David “strengthened himself in the Lord his God” (1 Sam. 30:6).

What we’re going to focus on now is the enemy that appears in this story—we’re going to focus on the Amalekites, and on what they symbolize. This is worth doing because the Amalekites symbolize a particularly sneaky spiritual opponent. They symbolize falsities, or lies, that are slipped into our thinking and attack us when we’re down. So what we’re really focusing on today is how to recognize these falsities for what they are: how to recognize when the thing that’s oppressing us, the thing that’s making us feel hopeless, is a lie. These lies rob us of our happiness—but if we look to the Lord we can beat the Amalekites, and take that happiness back.

The next passage from the Word that we’re going to consider is another story about a battle between Israelites and Amalekites. This is part of the story of the exodus from Egypt. The things that are described here happened after the children of Israel had crossed the Red Sea, as they were traveling through the wilderness to Mount Sinai. The Israelites have been complaining about being hungry (Ex. 16:2, 3) and thirsty (15:24, 17:3), and have been “contending” with Moses, their leader (17:2, 7). This is important to bear in mind, because the Amalekites attack us when we’re down. That’s the context, and here’s the reading: [17:8-13].

The bit about Moses needing to hold the rod of God above his head is interesting, because it’s so obviously symbolic. We’ll come back to that detail. For now, we’re focusing on the Amalekites. The Amalekites attacked when the people were wandering in the wilderness—when they were hungry and thirsty and already inclined to be angry with the Lord. And this was their M.O. They were opportunists who attacked weak points. Much later, in the book of Deuteronomy, Moses reminds the children of Israel of these events, and here’s what he says:

Remember what Amalek did to you on the way as you were coming out of Egypt, how he met you on the way and attacked your rear ranks, all the stragglers at your rear, when you were tired and weary; and he did not fear God. (25:17, 18)

The Amalekites attacked from behind, and they attacked the weakest people in the group. We see the same sort of thing in the reading from 1 Samuel: the Amalekites attacked Ziklag when David and his warriors were not present. In the teachings of the New Church we’re told that all of the enemies of the children of Israel symbolize specific evils (e.g. SH §§1444.4, 1868). You could also say that they symbolize specific kinds of evil spirits—the spirits that inspire those specific evils. The idea that the Amalekites were opportunists who attacked weak points gives us a pretty good sense of the kind of spirit that they symbolize.

            The term that’s used in the teachings of the New Church to describe this Amalekite spirit is “falsity arising from interior evil” (SH §8593). Falsity means lies. And our next reading, which is from the book Secrets of Heaven, explains what “interior evil” means [read from §8593].

            We’ll continue with the reading in a moment, but we should note that what we’ve read so far is mostly talking about not-so-nice people who live in this world. But the next part of the reading is about those same not-so-nice people after they’ve died and entered the spiritual world. Specifically, it’s about the way that those spirits attack us [read from §8593.2].

            So the first part of that reading is about people who really don’t mean well, but do an awfully good job of appearing to love their neighbors. It’s good to be aware that people like that exist. Obviously the Lord doesn’t want us to becomes suspicious of everyone who seems nice—“are you secretly an Amalekite?” And obviously this reading isn’t an invitation for us to start judging people’s hearts. But it is useful for us to be aware that evil often doesn’t want to look evil. It goes to great lengths to pass itself off as good.

            But for today’s purposes, the more significant part of that reading is the second part—the part that describes how these Amalekite spirits treat us. They never pick a fight when we’re in a strong position. They wait until we’re staggering, and then they show up to give us the final push. And don’t we all know what that feels like? Don’t we all know that it’s when we’re already struggling, when we’re already stressed and tired, that the craziest and nastiest thoughts pop into our heads? The Amalekites symbolize that spirit that comes to us in our lowest moments and nudges us towards rage or despair.

            Remember, the Amalekites are said to be “falsity from interior evil.” The way they nudge us towards despair is by telling us lies. And the lies that they tell are sneaky.  When you hear the word “falsity,” what do you think of? Sometimes “falsity” makes us think of great big false concepts—like “the world is flat.” And we imagine that the way we fight falsity is by hitting it with the truth—“no, the world is round.” We tend to imagine that if hell is coming at us with falsity, that means that hell is trying to contradict the things that we believe. “You think God is real? No, God isn’t real!”

But the reading from Secrets of Heaven says that these Amalekite spirits don’t attack the truths of faith—they attack the good of faith (§8593.2). Because these spirits know that if we have any faith in God, then that faith is a source of strength. And they don’t attack us where we’re strong. There’s a book called The Screwtape Letters, written by C. S. Lewis, and in this book a fictional devil named Screwtape advises another devil on how to corrupt human beings. The purpose of the book is to expose the tricks that the hells try to use on us. And Screwtape’s very first piece of advice in this book is “don’t argue with people.” He says, “by the very act of arguing, you awake the patient’s reason; and once it is awake, who can foresee the result?” (p. 2). The “patient” means the person that these devils are trying to lead astray. The point is that clever devils don’t argue with us, because they know that if they do we might start to argue back. This is a pretty good illustration of what we’re taught in the Word.

The Amalekites don’t attack our faith. They don’t try to take the things we believe and turn them on their heads. They tell us lies, but the lies they tell are designed to attack our affections. The Amalekites are sneaky. They come in the dark and attack the parts of us that we ourselves understand most poorly: they attack our feelings. The teachings of the New Church compare their lies to “deadly and imperceptible poison” (SH §8625.2).

Those lies probably take thousands of subtle forms. But here are a few examples of the kinds of things these spirits might be trying to make us believe:

·         The world is an awful, greedy place where might makes right.

·         If I take someone down so I can get ahead, I’m only doing what they wish they could have done to me.

·         Pleasure is the only good thing.

·         What this person did actually is unforgivable.

·         I can never be better than this.

So far we’ve focused on a lot of unpleasant things. There is a use in that: it’s good to know your enemy. But of course, what we really want to know is how to escape this enemy. How do we overcome the Amalekites? To overcome them is to rise out of a dark and tangled state of mind. It’s to rise up from the overwhelm that we feel when our emotions—our anger and our fear—have been weaponized against us.

No one will be surprised to hear that if we’re going to overcome this evil, the first thing we need to do is look to the Lord. David was overwhelmed with grief, his own people were turning against him, but he “strengthened Himself in the Lord his God” (1 Sam. 30:4, 6). He asked the Lord what He should do, and the Lord gave him purpose and a direction: “Pursue, for you shall surely overtake them…” (v. 8). We see the same dynamic in the story from Exodus: Joshua went down to fight with the Amalekites, but Moses went to the top of a hill and held up the rod of God (17:9). The rod of God symbolizes the power of the Lord—the power of truth that is joined to good (SH §§8598, 8599). While Moses held his hands up, the Israelites were able to beat the Amalekites. But if he put his hands down, the Amalekites started to win (Ex. 17:11). What this means is very simple: if we look to the Lord, we can overcome what hell throws at us. If we stop looking to the Lord, we will stumble (SH §8604).

This teaching might seem too simple. “Yes, yes—look to the Lord.” We can get the impression that the Lord is supposed to be a magic wand, and that if we wave the magic wand we’ll feel fine. But there are no magic wands. Part of what the Word is saying when it tells us to look to the Lord is that we need to just get out of the mentality that the hells construct for us. Their strategy is to overwhelm us with doubt and darkness, and often they succeed at trapping us in the middle of that doubt and darkness. They get us to play the game on their terms, and we spend time and energy trying to hold all of the feelings that they give us, trying to answer the unanswerable questions that they give us. And what the Word tells us is to just get out! Stop believing that you need to hold what hell gives you. The Lord is like the sun in the sky, above the smoke and the darkness—lift up your eyes, and let Him lift you out! We don’t have to follow the crooked road that hell has put beneath our feet. Just find the Lord. Find Him in prayer. Find Him in His Word. What does He say? In today’s recitation He says, “I am with you to save you and deliver you” (Jer. 15:20).

Looking to the Lord is the first step to freedom—but it’s not like our problems go away as soon as we look to the Lord. We have to keep going until the battle is over. David strengthened himself in the Lord, and after that he and his people had to pursue the Amalekites. And that would have been exhausting. It was so exhausting that two hundred of David’s men gave up the chase and stayed behind at the brook Besor (1 Sam. 30:9, 10). And when David finally caught up with the Amalekites, he still had to fight them, and that fight lasted “from twilight until the evening of the next day” (v. 17). We see the same thing in the story from Exodus: Moses couldn’t just put his hands up once. He had to keep them up throughout the battle. And his hands became heavy (17:12). Looking to the Lord isn’t so hard, but keeping Him in our thoughts is harder. We need to find things that strengthen and support us in our commitment to following Him (cf. v. 12; SH §§8608-8613). We need to stay the course. That was the message of last week’s sermon.

And it sure helps to do these things with a bit of a fighting spirit. Moses was up on the hill with the rod of God in his hands, but Joshua was down in the valley fighting the battle, and Joshua symbolizes “fighting truth” (SH §8595). Think of the zeal that David and his people must have felt, as they chased down the Amalekites to take back their wives and their children. Hell wants to take what’s good away from us, and when we say “no” to hell, it doesn’t hurt to let there be some fire in our voices. That defiant edge is captured in these words from the book of Micah: “Do not rejoice over me, my enemy; when I fall, I will arise; when I sit in darkness, the Lord will be a light to me” (7:8).

This fighting spirit will let us down if we look to ourselves for strength. True confidence—confidence that we can get up every time we fall—is confidence in the Lord. “The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?” (Ps. 27:1).

Amen.